A Weekend with Kate

This weekend is set within the grounds of Kate’s home in Pleasant Valley, a few minutes from Geraldine (and neighbours with the Barkers factory).

This is for people 14 months or more post-surgery. It isn’t exactly your usual weekend getaway, although we’ll certainly squeeze in some of the sights for you. There are no massages or other pampering, although you’ll get nourishing food and glorious surroundings. The retreat includes relaxing walks, but nothing strenuous.

It’s a deep dive into the whys and hows of yourself, with Kate as your guide.

She guides you through a process that unpacks your story, examining what drives your behaviour around food and (lack of) self-care.

”You can change your location, meet new people and still have the same old problem. To truly change your life, you need to look inward, get to know and love yourself and heal the trauma and dense conditioning in your mind. This is how you get to the root. Internal changes have a significant external impact.”
Yung Pablo

A consistent theme of Kate’s one-on-one sessions with people past the 14-month mark after surgery is that they feel broken and that their surgery didn’t work. There’s a fear that they’re going to go back to the place (both mentally and physically) where they were before.

Kate’s Master of Nursing research showed that self-care after weight loss surgery isn’t intuitive, for all kinds of reasons. This is what the weekend is all about - discovering self-care, and understanding why you haven’t been doing it in the first place.

“Wow, it sure opened a wee few wormholes in my head - was exhausting but fulfilling.”
Genevieve

There’s immense value in a retreat as a therapeutic activity. Being in a bigger body is socially isolating and it’s important to build connections and community, something that’s difficult if you’re doing online appointments or watching a webinar.

You get to see that you’re not alone. You get to experience the collective wisdom, support and motivation of others who are in a similar space. In the 48 hours or so you spend together, you can really focus in and spend time on your needs.

“I feel very connected to these ladies and am absolutely sure we will continue to stay in touch.”
Penny

THE VENUE: All guests get their own bedroom. All rooms have double beds - there is one bathroom per two rooms.

HOW TO GET THERE: we offer a pickup and dropoff service to and from Christchurch Airport at an extra cost. If there's more than one person requiring pickup the cost is shared between everyone.

PAYMENT: The total cost is $1250. We ask for a non-refundable $200 deposit to confirm the booking, and the remainder is due three weeks before the Weekend begins. You can pay by bank transfer, credit card, using AfterPay, or you can arrange a payment plan with our admin team.

“I feel like I have made some like-minded lifelong friends who understand the journey I am on. The group size was just right. Also, I think Kate’s probing and questioning is subtle enough to not be confronting and encourages you to be open and honest. The flow of the weekend with deep conversation, exercise and downtime for me was just right.”
Donna

Upcoming dates
November 2024 – 6pm, Friday, November 15th – 3pm, Sunday, November 17th
January 2025 – 6pm, Friday, January 24th – 3pm, Sunday, January 26th
February 2025 – 6pm, Friday, February 21st – 3pm, Sunday, February 23rd